Archive for November, 2007

Female fans of erotica really have a hard time when trying to find the right pornography to suit their own tastes. Whether we like straight, lesbian, or other - it seems porn out there is aimed at men. Or is it? Reading the Smart Girl’s Guide to Porn, you’ll learn things like porn isn’t really aimed at an actual human being, but more of a simplistic fantasy of greedy producers.

More importantly, this book will help teach us girlies how to find porn on the Internet, in film, and even great lesbian love flicks with awesome sex scenes that are so much more; they’re love making and they’re hot.

This read is also great because it brings to light in just a small way the fact that a lot, yes a LOT of women watch porn. According to a Glamour Magazine (right on!) poll, 87% of women aged 25 to 39 do. (I know some 17+ do [hush, 17's so the age to start] and hopefully as modern women age, the numbers for how popular it is will rise.

Last, but certainly not least, perhaps if you buy this book and help make it a success, film makers and webmasters just might get the message: produce some porn for women. Make things that depict actual coupling with feelings and lesbians who don’t kiss by completely sticking out their tongues to touch. And maybe, just maybe, someday, we could all but rid the Internet of actress and model intentional exploitation for the purposes of arousing men. We don’t need men to get off by misogyny! And I hate that I’m forced to, as well. *blush* Let there in fact be some porn in which women cum first!

Or at least, I can hopefully find a couple of the best sources for less.

Buy The Smart Girl’s Guide to Porn on Amazon for around $10 or add it to your wish list for the holidays now, if you be so bold.

The social connections of a single 20-something woman: moved away from parents, college roommates, not yet in with a man, children a decade or so away … In this modern world we live in, what fulfills the young woman of today – can a quarter-lifer “have it all”—Or just a quarter of life?

We find ourselves living in a world in which Tom Cruise has gone insane, read: the dream man has proven all too real; a dud, or worse; a dick. So who or what can complete me?

Our generation is in a tough spot. We were raised in a world where we still learned to someday be good wives, housekeepers and mothers. At 6, we dreamt of weddings, shared beds, and played with baby dolls and giving labor.

We went through high school becoming lonelier and lonelier, discovering this disturbing thing we now know as “horniness”, and finally went off to college. There we learned that men disappoint even when we get them to love us – or “love” us, because it probably isn’t real still at that point. It’s a surreal life of halves: sheltered freedom, non-private loneliness, structured responsibilities, and hard work with no pay.

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